Since having a child, there have been many changes to my free time. I no longer count on spending the whole day hiking or kayaking many miles. I'm content with a family-orientated morning activity, home for lunch, nap/rest time, followed by a shorter afternoon family activity. These are what my weekends are like. Although for the first year I still longed for the old more active and adventurous days, I now have forgotten that life and I enjoy doing things at Mathieu's pace and showing him the world and seeing things through his eyes.
This type of perspective has given birth to a new activity: Home improvement projects. In my old life, I was content adventuring in the outdoors all day and just get by with what we had at home. But now that we spend a lot more time at home, Sue and I are more interested in home improvement projects. We even have gone to Home Depot a few times to buy lumber and screws. This was a big deal!
I'm very proud of the our woodworking project we have just completed. It is a new bench with shoe storage to go right at our front door. In true family spirit, this project involved Sue, Mathieu, and Pepere (Sue's dad).
Mathieu loves helping with any project. He enjoys bringing me the pieces of wood or screws or tools. A few times he secured a piece of sand paper and got busy with it. Sue taught him (and me!) about sanding "with the grain," and our bench is smooth, smooth.
Pepere is very experienced in these type of projects, and so it was great to work on the project and learn so much from him. The end product looks great! Better than anything we would buy and fits perfectly in our home!