Sunday, September 26, 2010

A Fort Pulaski Tale

Mathieu runs down the tabby sidewalk that leads us into the wooded path. His first task is now before him: Finding the right stick. Mathieu takes this job very seriously as he surveys his options. It's comical because this stick-finding mission feels like it comes right out of a child's tale. "This stick is too small. I can't whack it against the ground easily. This stick is too big. I'm still struggling to heave it onto the path. This stick is too confusing. It has many poking, scratching twigs jutting out from it. Aah, but this next stick is just right. Long enough to whack against the ground but light enough to run with." Throughout this process, Mathieu has handed me a variety of stick options, too. I hang onto one, and off we go down the path.
Too small:
Too big:
Too confusing:
Just right:
Don't let the pants mislead you. They're for bug protection only. It's still summer on Tybee with water temps at 85 degrees!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Before I was pregnant with Mathieu, Dave and I would talk about what we would have to give up when we had a baby. We knew basic things like no more weekly kayaking jaunts to Little Tybee. We also knew we wanted to have a family and that what we "gave up" would be replaced with something more joyous. Or at least that's what every parent said. I'm pleased to say that those parents were right. Mathieu is such a joy, and his actions, like when he first started walking, have a powerful and exciting impact on us in ways that I did not understand before I had a child. Now he runs, doles out hugs, frantically blows multiple kisses, and attempts to communicate through recognizable speech. It's astounding to see, especially since 19 months ago, Mathieu's main skills included crying ... a lot. But it's not just that he can DO things. And it's more than being responsible for a life. It's that all three of us are in a relationship and we love one another.

Mathieu enjoys helping out around the house. He's currently just as concerned with a sandy floor as his mommy and exclaims, "Oh no!" and runs to get the broom.Dave and Mathieu made play dough on Saturday. At first he didn't quite know what to do, but then Mathieu got the hang of it.
Walking in Mommy's shoes!